高爾夫就是一個喇賽的運動/Talking is another feature of golf！~上集

高爾夫有很多的詮釋和不同印象，有時候是一個人的挑戰和運動，但有時候就社交活動的最佳代表。好多人打球是因為工作需要，要陪客人或領導打球。所以高爾夫即是一個人的運動也是社交的活動。對我來說，我習慣一個人下場打球，但都會和不同人並組打，所以也是一個樂趣。

想想下場打球18洞的時間在4個小時，一個人打不會無聊，也是充滿挑戰，而且你會有同組的球伴需要去交流。當然多數的話題都是以高爾夫為主的內容，不過這些東西也會有聊到盡頭，所以就會天南地北的喇賽，分享一些生活的點滴和經驗。

我以前年輕個性比較拘謹，所以都和熟的朋友一起打球，但過了40歲，皮也老了、也厚了，就不在乎太多東西。就容易和一般人或陌生人交流、喇賽了。但就我自己的經驗，和陌生人一起打球，其實更輕鬆，因為彼此都不認識下，就可以放開的去聊很多東西。這才是我覺得最棒的高爾夫！

因為不認識所以可以選擇要不要去聊，有時候會比較集中在如何去做擊球或是觀察球場的球道設計..在和陌生人打球時就不會去理會別人的想法。想到就和他拉兩句。當然他也會和你拉幾句。其實我覺得，心情比如何東西都要重要，如果心情放得開，自然也容易和其他球友聊得開。

讓我覺得和陌生人打球最好的事就是，不管他是誰，在高爾夫上沒有誰比較好或不同。因為在這個興趣上，我們會相互去交流，把自己一些經驗和想法盡情去分享和討論。不管正確與否，都是因為高爾夫而得到的機會來產生交流。很多的資訊都是藉由這些不認識的球友才得到。

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高爾夫就是一個喇賽的運動/Talking is another feature of golf！~下集
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Golf has many images for people, sometimes it's the personal challenge, sometimes it's the social activity. That's why golf is so attractive for golfers to seek their goal and expectation. To me I like to golf personally and most of time, it needs to play with other individual or group. That's the fun and challenge for me to enjoy.

For 18 holes, it's taking at least 4 hours to finish, I don't feel bad if I play alone but sometimes, you have your peers to play as the group, that's different way of the golf to allow you enjoy the gossip of grouping. I like to play with unknown golfer who meets once and I can freely to talk what I like to share. That's the stress for 4 hours golfing.

The good thing is I can get lots of information and knowledge from golfers who know about many local golfing stuff and information. Since golfers have the same interests and we can easily to get alone to share all kinds of things and experience during the golfing. It's all up to you! You can talk or not to talk with the golf mate. No one will force you to talk!

I love to go other cities or places for golfing, and to talk with local golfers you need to open your mind and share things together. It's good to make the friends and share the contact. That's why golfing is the social activity to talk. Unlike to play with your friends, you know your friends who have the preferences and issues. But playing to stranger has no such problem or barrier at all.

Talking is very important in golf as sometimes you play with other golfers who are not your friends, you will need to open your mind to make the friends, bring the discussions and share the golfing stuff. When I was young, I am not open minded so I only play with my friends. Most of Asian golfers have the same difficulty to play strangers.

Talking is another feature of golf！~Part II
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