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高爾夫是訓練做抉擇的最好方式/Golf is the best way to build your decision making!~上集

高爾夫是訓練做抉擇的最好方式/Golf is the best way to build your decision making!~上集

人的一生有無數次需要做決定,很多人害怕做決定,因為怕做錯決定而痛苦或後悔。但其實決定不是絕對,重點在做完決定後,你如何去調整修正錯誤決定的處理?這是我覺得比較重要。讓孩子打高爾夫也是這樣的基礎。因為高爾夫裡面,每一桿都需要做決定,學會不怕做決定是人生很重要的一環。然後再去修正有問題的決定。

如果害怕做決定,會讓你的人生停滯不前,所以問題不在決定本身,因為你無法未卜先知,而在不斷修正調整決定本身的結果。以前下場打球都會想很多,也會設定策略,但往往結果都不會和計畫走。後來什麼都不去想,做好每一次的擊球,事情就變得簡單。這也是我的做法和策略,就是簡化問題,專注解決問題。

當然你的技術會影響你的擊球和每一球的策略,但問題還是一樣,不要去把問題複雜化,決定要敢下,如何集中精力去做好。這是我個人認為,對實際打球最好用,也比較務實的策略。我們因為吸收很多資訊和知識,導致我們對問題時,往往都把問題本身複雜化,怎麼複雜化?就是想太多,認為你可以打什麼球路、用哪支桿子、要如何分析狀況和做不到的方法。

我都認為因為你覺得你是選手,可以來個低飛球路,或左曲貼著球道飛,要不就是要像選手那樣直攻果嶺的打法。我都覺得是不切實際,因為你不是選手,也沒有那樣的技術和能力去執行,往往都是想的多卻做不到。所以我自己不管是什麼狀況,只有一個想法,就是把球給送回球道或用自己最熟悉的球桿給打出去。

以前和一些朋友打球,他們想的很多、問的也一串、但結果就是烙賽。為什麼?很多自己能力做不到的就根本別想了,把自己搞得像打名人賽一樣。果嶺上也一樣,走來走去、要抓多少.....離那麼遠,就先把球放到洞口附近就好,還想一推進洞!只能說電視看太多了。

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高爾夫是訓練做抉擇的最好方式/Golf is the best way to build your decision making!~下集
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There are millions of times that you need to make the decision for all kinds of things. Some people are afraid of to make the decisions because they are afraid to make the wrong decisions for the consequences. But the issue is on after the decision that you need to work out and correct it to the right path. You can not predict the future so you have to fine tune the decisions.

Golf is like your life that has many decisions to make, each shot you have to decide how to play and which golf club to perform? Therefore, it's good for people to build your decision making ability. Do not be afraid of to make the decision, once the decision is made, you have to go for it and do your best. That's the right approach for making your decision.

I was thinking lots of assumptions before making the decision on each shot for golf, but the results were bad since my ability, skills and swing did not mature and good enough to perform what I would like to present. As a result, I make things easy and simple, to focus on making the right swing with solid impact for the shot. It works all the time in my plays.

Why? we all think too much and complicated, but our abilities, skills and knowledge are unable to perform the result we expect. That's why we should think easy and simple, we can deliver what we can in the end. Most of golfers think they can shoot the ball like pros, in fact, we are human being with less abilities and training.

Setting something unrealistic is kind of stupid. Since we do not know personal limitation and capacity then we set up the wrong goal and mission to accomplish. That's why our decision is wrong and needs to fine tune it after all. Some golfers always ask lots of things and information before the shots but it won't help to make the solid shots instead of having too much information and unable to make the right shot.

Golf is the best way to build your decision making!~Part II
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